COMMANDO TACTICS WHILE WAITING:
Section 5 of the Online Guidebook [
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Okay, so you've sent your applications in, and you know you got them
there by the deadline because you sent them second-day air at least four days before they
were due, $3 being a small price to guarantee such internal serenity and peace of mind,
after all. Or, you sent them next day air because you were too lazy to save yourself $11
by sending them in any earlier. Or -- and this is really hard to believe, but
theoretically plausible -- you sent them in several weeks before they were due, and spoke
with Ms. Beeswick (writing down name, date, and time in a special diary...) at the
admissions office who assured you that they had arrived in fine shape, and aren't you a
darling for being so prompt and considerate of her time constraints? (Yuck...)
Now what?
This is where, again, many graduate applicants fall into the fateful
Undergraduate Admissions mode of thinking. They sit down and wait politely and worry where
they might get in and think "oh, won't it be great if any one of them accepts
me?" One word: wrong.
Yes, it's true, many people get accepted exactly this way. In fact,
probably the vast majority do. Few people think to act differently. And you may not want
to act differently. But I would suggest that you consider -- just consider -- other ways
of keeping busy during this graduate admissions "void."
Contact Your Recommenders: The people who have recommended you
would love to hear from you. Why don't you call, visit, or write them a letter? Tell them
where you finally applied, what fellowships you've discovered, and how the whole thing
went (very well, I would expect, with the amount of planning you did). Of course you're
going to contact them again after the admissions letters start trickling in, but at least
they will be appraised of the current situation. And they may even be willing to help you
a little further, if the urgent need should arise. Certainly don't forget them at this
critical stage.
Call Politely To Inquire: Unless you received a postcard stating
that everything in your file was completed, you should call the admissions offices to make
sure that there are no lingering problems with your application packet. Especially if they
informed you that something was missing, you'll need to follow up later by asking whether
the additional forms ("Sent out on this date: ___________") have been received
at their office. Call it peace-of-mind insurance or whatever, but call.
Visit Schools: This is a terrific time to travel. You're bored
and nervous, they're currently looking over your application, and meeting each other now
may be just the thing to dispel any questions or doubts either you or the program might
have. Moreover, by making your name and face familiar to them, you will gain a qualitative
advantage over other candidates. Just as in politics, name recognition is half the battle;
the more familiar they are with you, and the more they connect that name to a living,
breathing person, the better off you are.
Get On The 'Net: You're not alone, and the Internet will prove
it. Right about this time newsgroups like "soc.college.grad" and
"soc.college.gradinfo" start blooming with information and questions and worried
remarks from people just like you. Ask around to see whether School X has sent any
acceptance letters yet, or if the fellowship from the National Piscatological Society
seems as fishy to other folks as it does to you. You'll probably also hear the
lamentations of exemplary students with 4.1 GPA's (due to their double A+ in Theoretical
Astrophysics) discuss how they were denied admission even to Drunken State University
because they had failed to fold their forms into correct thirds. Ignore them, they're
either liars or idiots -- everyone knows you don't fold application forms, they go in big
manila envelopes!
Don't Expect A Reply Until Late: It's probably better to fool
yourself into believing that acceptance letters won't be coming out until at least two
weeks after the admissions office say they will. Thus, when they arrive seven weeks
late (as typical), you'll only have spent five anxious weeks of peering inside an empty
mailbox. And although the temptation is great, you may find that you are better off not
harassing the admissions office every day, or screaming at the office personnel:
"What the hell would you have done if MY stuff had arrived seven weeks late!?"
This strategy, as natural as it seems, tends quite often to backfire.
Call Politely Again: It is okay, however, to make one or two
brief calls to the admissions offices, gently reminding them of your continuing interest
in the program. You may also wonder openly about the current status of your file, the
number of applications received, or how many acceptance/denial letters have already gone
out, or other such things. They may not answer directly, but hey, you're just being
friendly, right?
Send An Additional Recommendation: Now we are getting into some
more serious measures. While it is generally wise to stay within the proscribed limits as
far as recommendations and essay lengths are concerned, you may decide that your
application could use a little lift and that, with a certain amount of tact, you might
help it by sending along an additional recommendation. Tell them, for instance, that you
originally had intended to include this recommendation but that it had arrived late, and
you were sending it along now whether they would could use it or not. Of course, this is
only one possible scenario, but your general strategy is clear: show an abiding interest
in their program, offer additional resources for their decision-making, and subtly provide
another reason for them to learn your name. Slightly risky, yes, but not much. The worst
they can do is not read the recommendation, and you will have openly recognized that
option unassumingly. Again, this is not a conventional strategy, but it is indicative of
the opportunity to be both creative and persistent in your efforts, however you decide
necessary, and to follow through to the end.
Send a Letter: Unorthodox but surprisingly low-risk strategy is
the idea of contacting graduate programs after applications have been sent. Perhaps you
worry that you have created a mistaken impression of your interests or strengths, or fear
that successive denials threaten your chances for admission at all. For whatever reason,
you may decide to send a letter to the remaining schools to reinforce your interest and to
reacquaint them with you. Tell them if they're #1 (conveniently forgetting, of course, to
tell them that they're the only program left!) or let them know that you've just
received a private fellowship offer (whereas money may not "talk" in the
graduate admissions process, it certainly grunts pretty audibly). Professional journals,
Internet newsgroups, and ongoing conversations with your recommenders also may provide
excuses for letterwriting. Whatever the source, the purpose again is to separate you from
the crowd, increase familiarity with your name, and demonstrate your particular interest
and knowledge of their program -- all worthwhile causes.
Recommenders' Aid: As an interpersonal process, why not
recognize any potential aid your recommenders might provide? If one of them should happen
to know certain faculty members or be an alumnus/a at the school in question, they may be
able to aid your application in a personal way. Yes, this sounds like a covert action, but
it isn't. Think if you were in the process of hiring someone, and a friend called to say
he/she knew one of the applicants to be a fantastic worker, despite a relatively standard
résumé. Would you feel more confident in hiring that person? Certainly. Likewise there
is nothing wrong in allowing other people to say nice things about you, as long as they do
so willingly. The only thing that is difficult is finding a tactful way of asking
for such a favor. I can only say this: the more concerned you are, the easier the asking
will become.
Truly Desperate Suggestions: These two are added only to give
you an idea of other guidebooks' somewhat amazing and rather blunt advice. I endorse
neither of them, but I'd love to hear if either one actually works...
The most overt strategy, perhaps, is to buy one's way into a program or
school with a very large donation, perhaps through the generosity of a parent. This
opportunity is available to few applicants and is difficult to document. Those few
applicants in a situation to pursue such an approach presumably do not need further advice
on the topic.
Or this little gem....
A final high risk alternative is to use connections you may have with
university administrators or other heavies. This essentially means arm twisting rather
than persuasion.
Apply To Lesser Schools: If you are honestly worried about your
chances of getting in anywhere, a quick dash back to Peterson's might be in order.
You might have eliminated this by including a Stone Age primitive, basic type of safety
school from the very beginning, but this is no time for self-recrimination. Go ahead and
complete the application for two such safety schools now. You can decide later whether
you're better off, A) with no degree, or B) waiting until next year's round of
applications. It'll be nice in any case to have a choice in the matter, and not have the
decision thrust upon you unwillingly. |